Attachment Disorder

What is Attachment Disorder?

In short, attachment disorder is a condition that can affect young children (usually before age five) if they haven't had the chance to form a stable, loving bond with their parents or carers.

This usually happens if a child has experienced neglect, hasn't felt safe, or has been separated from their main caregiver very early on. Because they didn't have that "secure base" when they were tiny, it can be really hard for them to feel safe or settled as they grow.

How it often looks:

Difficulty trusting others: It’s hard for them to believe that adults will look after them.

Big emotions: They might struggle to stay calm or handle their feelings.

Social hurdles: Making friends or connecting with others can feel overwhelming.

Behavioural signs: Some children might become very quiet and withdrawn, while others might act out or seem quite "spiky" and aggressive.